History of Valentine’s Day

History of Valentine’s Day

 

      

The origin of this lover’s day goes back to as early as 270 A.D.

As early as the fourth century B.C,the Romans engaged in an annul young man’s rite to passage to the God Lupercus.the names of the teenage women were placed in a box  and drawn  at random by adolescent men, thus a man was assigned a woman companion for the duration of  the year, after which another lottery was staged .after 800 years of this cruel practice ,the early church fathers sought to end this practice … they found an answer in Valentine, a bishop who had been martyred some two hundred years earlier.

 

When Claudius becomes the emperor, he felt that married men were more emotionally attached to their families, and thus will not make good soldiers. So to assure quality soldiers, he banned marriage.

Valentine, a bishop, seeing the trauma of young lovers, met them in a secret place  and joined them in the sacrament of matrimony .Claudius learned of this ‘friend of lovers’ and had him arrested .he died on February 14,269 A.D.

Saint Valentine left a farewell note for the jailor’s daughter, who had love, and signed it ‘from your valentine ‘.In 496A.D Poe Gelasius set aside February 14 to honour St.Valentine.

 

 

Gradually February 14 became the date for exchanging love messages.

A Friend most true

 

I need to know if you’re my true friend,
Will you be by my side until the end?
 
Can I tell you my secrets deep?
And trust them in your heart you’ll keep?
 
We are neither of us without our flaws,
Can you accept mine as I will yours?
 
I’ll be a shoulder to cry on when you’re blue,
Will you be there for me when I need you?
 
No matter how busy I will make time for you,
If you are busy will you make time for me too?
 
I will take your hand and comfort your tears,
Will you hold me and soothe my fears?
 
I will give you joy and many warm smiles,
Can we share that even across many miles?
 
I will not forget what’s important to you,
Will you remember what’s important to me too?
 
With you my most favorite things I’ll share,
If only I know do you truly care?
 
If you can accept me as I do you,
Then I will know you are a friend most true.
 
 
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~ Wendy Hinson ~

me and you

 

When I first talked to you
I felt like I had known you forever,
telling you my problems
and what I didn't want ever.

You listened to me
I bet you thought I'd never end,
who would have thought
we would be the best of friends.

Over a period of time,
I got to know the real you.
A guy so charming and gentle,
with a heart so true.

You've survived your life
with me by your side.
I told you I'd never leave
because of the feelings I have inside.

There was a time
I wanted to explore,
what would have happened
if I would only open the door.

I know you
like no one I have ever known,
and sometimes I wonder
what do I do when we're alone?

So I have decided
time answers all.
If it is meant to be
time will remove the wall.

Standing between us,
holding us back,
allowing us to feel
It's the relationship that we lack.

I love the way we are together,
you can always make me smile.
Will it ever really be forever?
I guess I will have to wait awhile.

Time will reveal, what lies ahead
but always remember
what I have said.
Meeting you has changed my life
and I really love you so,
the feelings I feel for you
I am never letting go.
Remember me always
and I will too.

I will always think of
me and you.